I'm here to say that I understand and I am with you. I have seizures...so I know the difficulties of people being like, "Just eat right and exercise!" There are days I cannot get out of bed for being so dizzy. And with my seizures, I'm forced to eat every two hours. Do I eat healthy? Yes. So much so that other people comment on it. "...you're eating purple cabbage? By itself???" But when you're sick, taking care of yourself sometimes looks like laziness or overeating, when other people are watching. It's disgusting. I've been fit and healthy most of my life. I'm doing the best that I can with what I was given.