I don't believe that people who shame anyone care about the people they're shaming. It makes them feel great about being self-righteous . If they cared, you know what they'd ask? "How are you doing? How are you feeling? Are you okay? Is there anything that I can do to help? "

But no. They arrive at judgement without stopping first at empathy and critical thinking before asking themselves if everything that pops into their heads should pop out of their mouths or onto the screen.

Or if it's even their business to insert themselves into yours.